This will be specific to my past because it’s about things I went through that I would have done differently. I don’t regret these things; they are just things I would have done differently now that I have the foresight. Position yourself for the highest probability of success, like the guys who got away with … Read more
You must start showing up for yourself. You are the only person who will ever pull yourself out of your hole. I want to give you examples of what it means to show up for yourself. Do you feel like you’re in a hole? You’re days more than likely are merging because you’re doing the … Read more
Are you on your going Nowhere in life? You won’t realize you’re heading that way until you see the welcome sign. This post is more of a reminder for myself, the Urbngentleman, than the audience. Beware! Do not read if you’re incapable of introspection. You won’t even know when you decided to go to the … Read more
How can you use persuasion tips to improve your life? You can use persuasion to improve your social life and your interactions with your co-workers. Let’s break down these 3 persuasion tips Persuasion Tip One: Social proof This is a concept by Robert Cialdini in his book Influence where people will be willing to see … Read more
What does “heavy is the head that wears the crown” even mean? It might have been something you heard around while going about your daily life, but in basic terms means that whoever is the king always has people trying to take the throne or invade their territory. Elon Musk: Look at Elon Musk as … Read more
“Why is it hard for me to get out of bed”, is that you? It’s the second week of January and you are wondering why you struggle so much to get out of bed. Marcus Aurelius in his book
Have you had to deal with real chaos where it feels like there is an invisible fire closing in? You are sweaty but you haven’t moved from your desk. You are breathing heavy wondering what happened to today after the morning was starting off slow. You doubt yourself wondering if you are even qualified to … Read more
I am sure you hear the term NPC (Non-playable character) being thrown around, it’s meant to describe some people’s behavior who don’t get it (life). You are most likely thinking “Is that me?”. Instead of telling you what describes an NPC, I will break down this one word that must be used as a mantra … Read more
What type of person did you admire growing up? As a small child watching a spy movie or TV show, what characters popped out to you and grabbed your attention? Now that you’re in a later stage, do you ever think back to those times and wonder why you admired those characters? Here’s how you … Read more
Why You’ll End Up Outgrowing Your Friends You may have stumbled upon this post because you are the kind of person who is going through some rough patches most likely with a significant other, but some with friendships. If you are going through a rough patch check out my last post on navigating life’s ups … Read more